Our first conversation, on the phone, lasted almost four hours. We were immediately fond of each other and wanted to share everything. That hasn’t change since.
But our relationship has evolved over the years. In part because of the good and bad we lived through. And in part because of the dark and light parts we found in each other.
We made the decision to prioritise our relationship, to look in the mirror and to learn from each other. Often, we sought professional help, individually and as a couple.
And we continue to do this, because there are still days we clash and revert to our old patterns.
Nowadays, we are gentle about this, playful even. We have learnt that every painful moment provides an opening towards growth and connection. Something we look for, out of curiosity and love.
After everything that happened, we feel tenderness and respect for one another. We see and know each other and are grateful for our life together, our beautiful family and our close family ties.
Our work as a therapist is an extension of this path of ours. It ads joy and depth to our relationship, but is also a source of clashes and frustrations. Not easy, but definitely rewarding.
Everything is already here and everything is ok. The way it has been since the very beginning.